My lovely wife an I agree.....

My lovely wife an I agree that it is not called for , to discuss what will be IF we split up, from the beginning i was against it. To plan a failure , Then that is what will be .
So with our trust for one another (to a limit of course) we are able to communicate with other people male or female , understanding that just talking is , just talking . That people are not always looking to hook up.
We need to heal the relationship between men and women so that not every Look,Question,Smile and even to say Hi isn't a sexual jester, we can be friends with the opposite sex.
With no REAL TRUST, the relationship will never work out

we give thanks to the Creator for a wonderful 13 yrs together.
So let me know if this helps you